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Alan Brown: 210-227-5103
Family Law
Jean Brown: 210-354-2662
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Mistakes to avoid in divorce

Even under the best of circumstances, a Texas divorce can be trying for anyone going through it. However, a number of common mistakes can make things even worse. Here are some behaviors to avoid during the divorce.

Do not be adversarial

Many people think that a divorce automatically means you must fight it out with the other spouse. This is not the case. In fact, a divorce can be resolved amicably with a minimum of tension. While it takes two to get along, you should make every effort that you can to negotiate instead of fight.

Keep communication open

Some people make the mistake of either not talking or only talking to their spouse through their lawyer. While you do not have to be best friends, a certain amount of communication is necessary to resolve the divorce issues. If you only talk through a lawyer, it can be both expensive and perceived as confrontational. There is nothing to say that you cannot negotiate directly with your spouse, calling in your lawyer as necessary.

Keep financial expectations realistic

When you approach a divorce wishing to leave nothing for your spouse, it forces them to become litigious. You must recognize where your spouse is coming from with their requests. They may not be able to earn the amount of money that you can, for example. Be prepared to compromise in divorce negotiations to settle the matter.

Hiring a divorce attorney may prevent you from making basic mistakes that could make the situation worse. You may bring emotion into your divorce, which can cloud your judgement. Your attorney might help keep you realistic and advise you how to avoid common mistakes. This may lead to a quicker and easier resolution of your divorce case without the need for a court hearing.